UNITY: Our First Tradition

People Come Into Your Life For A Reason

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Why do we need to be unified?

Whether we’re amidst the fellowships of AA or NA, we all stand united in a wide-world of recovery. Our primary purpose? Living clean and sober and carrying the message of “a way out” to others that still suffer.

In order to do that, we call our First Tradition to bear:

“Our common welfare should come first; personal recovery depends on Unity.”


Tradition One requires the acquisition and practice of seemingly new-found virtues: Patience and Tolerance. We’ll be making an effort to practice the three elements of recovery: Honesty – Open-mindedness – Willingness. In Honesty, we understand we need the bond between us to maintain our personal recovery. In open-mindedness, we accept that there are others with insights and interpretations of recovery that differ from our own, but as they have given us their quiet ear, so we should them. In willingness – we bite our tongues when tempted to interrupt,argue with and refute others, making concessions for the good of the group’s survival. This is the reality of living in Unity.

Here is today’s Meditation on the subject of Unity from

January 29
Peace and Harmony Ought to Be Preserved

The quest for our peace and harmony can neither be stalemated, nor relegated to second position, so we often resort to the discussion of how we can commonly live and work well together. It is in this dialogue that we produce the demeanor for our foremost need: unity.
We adhere to the same established group order in our meetings,
as the right of the individual to be heard without interruption is respected.
All of us should be given an equal chance to speak and listen.
The individual, growing in sobriety, comes to know patience and
tolerance in listening and sharing; these are our spiritual principles as they assist our effort to preserve unity amongst ourselves.
Extending our hands in Twelve Step Fellowship allows us to escape
our clamoring egos and provides us with an exercise. It is found in the spiritual axiom of unity: cooperation.
This does not mean we should ignore our principles or opinions,
but suggests that for the ultimate good of all, from time to time we
may make concessions, preserving our harmony.


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The Beatles – HELP!

This week there are 31,000 readers!

Looking back to when I began this work over a year ago,
and some 40ish posts, I examine my primary motivations –
Carry the Message? Yes. Attract attention to the book –
without a doubt. Have a venue to express myself without an editor but my readers? Emphatic Yes!

“ART FOR ART’S SAKE, MONEY FOR GOD’S SAKE” !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

As a self-publisher, you have to get “Merlin Creative” to
introduce your work to a world audience that is absolute-
ly inundated with advertising messages. You have your
website, the social networks, blogging, e-mail blasts (as
effective as banging garbage can lids together on a crowd
-ed free way of information) and the classic one-on-one.

No Big Box Book Stores or Super-Grocery and Departments;
they won’t even touch you without their corporate tith-
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Then How Do You Make It Work?

You go to your readers and ask for their help. No fancy pleadings about “ending-it-all unless…..” No long drawn out explanations of costs, time, keeping the voice alive.

Just the simple request for help – and that means donations. I’m asking you. I can take more time to entertain and inform you about recovery and my slant on it’s world, but I have to subsist – eat – pay my damn bills!

I have been 100% out of pocket and I’m 98% OUT OF POCKETS!

If you’re a financially independent with an opportunity to support this effort – I need you. But more likely, if you can scrape and donate a dollar, five, ten, twenty-five, whatever,…….. I am grateful for your help, because I need it. There’s a global recession on and people I’m feelin’ it!


Let Pay-Pal guide you through the rest using your credit card or some other method. It probably isn’t deductible, because I am not a charity. I am the author of this blog, asking for your help and nothing more.  For that which you are able to provide, my most genuine thanks. Arthur Messenger

“That for which you ask and truly believe, so it shall be yours.

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